Picking the right colors for your user interface elements is always a great challenge, but it is even more challenging when you develop reusable framework controls where you as a developer have no control over the look and feel of the application using them. While you might always add elements on top of the default gray background the developers embedding your controls  might have more of a gothic tendency and use a black background. All of a sudden the nice colors your picked clash with the rest of the application.

To tackle this problem the best way I found while working on FlexGanttFX and FlexCalendarFX was to use semi-transparent colors. When you do the color of your UI elements will always be a mix of their own color and the background color. Your colors will become brighter if the application uses a white background and darker if it is using a black background. The contrast between your element and the background will never be strong, which makes for a smooth appearance.

The following screenshots were taken from FlexCalendarFX (work-in-progress).